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November 16, 2009 |
| msAbsolut asks: |
| I dont think that this post belongs here but I posted it in the health advice section a few weeks ago and it hasnt been answered. I have been on depo for about a year and have had irregular periods. Well in October I went to see the doctor because I had been having my period for a little over a month and she gave me some birth control pills to take for a month to stop the bleeding.Well about one or two weeks later my period stopped and that is when the discharge started. It doesnt have an odor, or itching or any other signs. There is enough of the discharge that I sometimes have to where a liner. When I dont where a liner my panty seat is white and when i do where a liner, the discharge appears to be of a light yellow color. Do you have any idea as to what could be wrong? Do I need to consult a health care professional? Also I always had a discharge and i know that discharge is normal but now it is just a little more than usual. |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
That question is perfectly fine here. :)
It doesn't sound like anything is wrong to me at all. If there's no smell or itchiness, that sort of discharge sounds normal. White (or a slight tinge of yellow when using liners) is perfectly fine. Since this isn't normal for 'you' per se, then just keep in mind that birth control changes your hormones and so you're producing more because of that. When you check in with your doctor next time, feel free to mention it to ease your worries since *I'm* not a doctor, but I wouldn't rush off to one. |
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November 13, 2009 |
| jennie asks: |
| This is kind of embarrassing, but it has me worried. I was having sex using a condom. I always insist on that to be safe. However, this guy took it off when he got ready to finish and ejaculated all over my stomach and boobs. I don't know him that well or his sexual history, so I'm worried about disease because I have several body piercings and his sperm got on a couple of those areas. Do I need to get tested? |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
Yes and no. If you're concerned at all about previous exposure to bodily fluids from people you don't know the sexual history of, then definitely get yourself tested to ease your own mind and be safe for others in the future.
As for your piercings, though, unless they're recent and still healing (or have been busted open recently), then you should just fine. :) |
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November 09, 2009 |
| Someone asks: |
| Ummm... for the past few years now I`ve been having *really* painful cramps during my period, a lot of blood (I know we`re always told it always looks like there`s more than their really is), nausea, vomiting, loss of apetite, dizziness and wind up stuck in bed. Any idea what could be causing this or somewhere I can look? Also, is it something serious that I should get checked or something that will clear up by itself? |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
| A lot of the things you described are common with PMS, but if they are affecting your life in the way that you describe them I would see a doctor. They could be a more severe form of PMS and you might be able to be prescribed something for it (a specific kind of BC perhaps, to help ease the symptoms)... |
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November 06, 2009 |
| Ceesbee3 asks: |
| My boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months, and in the beginning we wanted to have a physical relationship mostly just making out and minor touching and stuff. but we have now moved on to fingering and hj, but niether of us have been able to finish. and we want to wait until we get married to go all the way. but the main point is that lately he has become less interested in sex. he doesn't fantasize or think about having sex with me anymore. buti know that he is still in love with me. and i'm deeply in love with him. and it worries me that he isnt interested in sex stuff anymore. do u think it's just a phase? or is there something different? and is there anything i can do to get him interested in being sexual with me again. |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
There are lots of things that could be going on. Is school or work stressing him maybe? Does he have a lot on his mind? People go through phases....ups and downs....maybe it's just not on his mind much lately, or maybe something else is bothering him. The only way to really know is to talk to 'him', but try not to pressure him or make him feel bad that he hasn't been fantasizing about you. It could be nothing personal against you at all.
As for getting him interested again, I'd give it some time first because of the reasons I mentioned above. If he's just bored with what you guys have been doing or is sexually frustrated, then hey, try something different. You guys aren't getting off by doing things to each other, so show each other how you like it. Masturbate for each other, or guide each others' hands to 'exactly' how you want to do something. Try different fun ways of kissing. Explore each others' bodies. Dance for him. Talk about fantasies or things you want to do later. Text him when you're thinking about him in the middle of the day (or call, leave him a message, a note in his locker, whatever works for you, you get the idea). Whisper something dirty in his ear while you're out in public (be careful not to turn him on too much or it could embarrass him, lol). Look online together for new things to try. Explore sites together about handjobs or fingering techniques and talk about what sounds interesting. Just have fun and continue loving each other. |
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November 01, 2009 |
| tinydancerxxi asks: |
| So my boyfriend and I were messing around last night. I gave him a hand job and he ejaculated on his underwear. Then he went to the bathroom to get it off and change underwear. He got some semen on his hand while he was changing, but he washed his hand pretty well with soap and water. Then about 10 minutes later we messed around again and he fingered me. Do you think there's any chance that I could get pregnant? I've heard a lot of different things about how fast or slow sperm dies when it's outside of the body... And how soap and water doesn't kill sperm... So I was just wondering. Thanks a lot, this is an awesome and extremely helpful site. |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
| You're fine. Yes, there are chances with everything, but he washed his hands well. Sperm aren't that smart or durable, so they can't exactly cling to his hand, hanging on for dear life, and still manage to swim all the way up inside you to impregnate you. |
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October 24, 2009 |
| question asks: |
| hi, i'm not sure if this is the right forum for this question...anyways...I am wondering how you can tell a "girl crush" from a lesbian crush. like if you are a girl and you become obsessed with another girl, thinking about how beautiful she is, even what a great body she has and things like that, does this mean you are gay? is there a difference you can tell between a girl crush and actually falling for another girl? thanks!! |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
| You can appreciate the beauty and intelligence of another person of the same sex without being a lesbian. The difference is- could you see yourself with that person? Are you developing romantic feelings? It might take a while for you to figure out if you are lesbian, or bisexual, but there isn't any rush. Just pay attention to your likes and dislikes :-) |
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October 22, 2009 |
| msAbsolut asks: |
| So lastnight me and my boyfriend was having sex and he was sitting up and I was sitting up on top of him and we were doing it, while doing that I heard this water like sound in my stomach as if it was getting shaked up or something. Thats the first time I've ever heard that. Do you have a clue as to why that happened.
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
| It very possibly could've just been water in your stomach, lol. Your stomach is always make sounds anyway or you could've recently had a drink and were just hearing the sloshing from the movement of you having sex. |
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October 03, 2009 |
| eggrolls asks: |
| Okay...where to start... lol. Well, basically I've never had sex before, and I've never gotten even NEAR to having sex. The closes thing I had ever gotten to it was a simple peck on the mouth. so, basically I haven't done anything with sex, but I keep thinking about it. It is against my religion...or kinda...I guess since adultery is and no sex before marriage. But I think about it maybe too much. Not me doing it or anything, just fake characters that I come up with...and it feels wrong but at the same time it feels okay? In a way though I feel like it's getting in the way of my closenss in my religion... I think I know the answer...to simply stop, but it's hard... Maybe I need specific steps on how to stop...? But then again it is just nice to spit it out on here. :) So...that's bascically it... |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
It's normal to have sexual thoughts. They are built into each and everyone one of us. I am not religious and I think that the way religion tries to put a damper on our natural sexuality is a crime. Because of that, my obvious answer is to say that you should do what feels right, within reason. Don't go out and have crazed wild unprotected sex, but if you want to go further with someone and it feels right to do so, then do it. Just make sure you are mentally, emotionally, and physically prepared. If you're not, stick to masturbation. Explore your own body. Explore your partners body. Make some limits and when you feel comfortable enough to move on, you can talk about doing more.
Good luck |
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| Topic: |
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September 25, 2009 |
| msAbsolut asks: |
| So I've been on depo for about a year...I was suppose to go and get my next shot in the last week of august but I didnt. Me and my bf had unprotected sex thursday night. I know your not a doctor, but do you know anything about the birth control shot and how long does it last after you have stopped taking it? |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
That's almost a full month after you were supposed to get your last shot, so while it's unlikely you're pregnant, there's a larger chance that you could get pregnant. The shot is effective for 13 weeks at a time (usually scheduled every three months/12 weeks). For some women, it takes a few months for the full effect of Depo to wear off, but for others, fertility comes right back after the 13 weeks.
http://www.birth-control-comparison.info/bcdepo.htm |
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| Topic: |
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August 18, 2009 |
| carmel08 asks: |
| someone told me girls have 3 holes "down there". Personally i looked "down there" and only saw 2 holes i think.... they were close together so i am not to sure. can u help me? |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
| Yep, there are three. There's the small hole that urine comes out of (urethra), then the larger vaginal opening, and then the anus. |
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