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May 05, 2008 |
| bani22 asks: |
| hi ive been with a guy for 8 months and i had sex with him and im pregnant now i am only 15 should i tell my mom? |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
| Um, yeah. She's going to find out anyway, so you might as well take care of this part of it soon and start dealing with everything else you'll need to do. |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
May 02, 2008 |
| freaking out asks: |
| ok i have a painless bumb on my penis... it does not even itch... dont know what it is kinda scard its an STD but the thing is i have never had sex... |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
| Well I can't really tell you what it is without seeing it and even then, I'm not a doctor. Some things to keep in mind, though....how long has the bump been there? Could the bump just be a pimple or a natural part of the skin? You've never had sex, but have you been in unprotected sexual situations? If you're really concerned, ask your doctor the next time you have a physical or schedule an appointment just for this. |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
May 02, 2008 |
| carly_rainey asks: |
| hi,iv been going out with my boyfriend for 1 month. his 17 and im 16.im stil a virgin.but his not and i think he wants to start doing sexual intercorse. he hasnt mentioned it but i kno he wants to do it with another girl.so do you think i need to do it with him. as he obviously wants to and is afraid to ask me. please write back. |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
| He wants to do it with another girl? No, I don't think you should have sex with him just because you think he might want it.....especially not with someone else. |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
May 01, 2008 |
| help asks: |
| ok so i need to no. when a guy fingers you like two times in one day if your a virgen could it have "poped your cherry" b/c after i could see like pink spots but it didnt look like blood and i hurt a little after now feel kinda sore i also havent have my period this month so could it just be that or maybe just to rough. |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
| Your "cherry" is actually a piece of skin called the hymen at the entrance to the vagina. It's VERY possible that his fingering could have torn or even broken your hymen entirely. You'll probably be sore for a bit so I would lay off the fingering for a while until you feel better/aren't bleeding. Then try again. It also could be possible that he was just too rough- but if he was, he would have likely broken your hymen anyways. |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
April 30, 2008 |
| dcnckc567 asks: |
| ok. my girlfiend is 15 and im 17 and we had sex both of us for the first time last december and ever since then she has been very distant. did i do something wrong? |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
| Sex is a very emotional thing, as well as physical. She may be having some issues with it. She may not feel completely comfortable with it. I have no idea. The most important thing you can do is communicate in a relationship. Especially after you begin having sex. Ask her this same question and see what answer you get :-) |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
April 22, 2008 |
| octobershy asks: |
| Well my boyfriend and I decide to be sexually active. We have not had sex yet. But I do give him handjobs. How do I tell him that I want pleasure too? thanks! |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
| A relationship should be balanced, so tell him that you'd like to get in on the action too! You could touch each other at the same time, or maybe tell him what you want him to do to you. Communication will help. Have a conversation about what you both want (physically) at this point in your relationship. |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
April 21, 2008 |
| helppleasexx asks: |
| Hi,
Im really worried, an just wanting you to give me some honest advice.
I'm 16, and i have had sex, with a condom twice this month.
I'm never on time for my periods but this month i'm now 2weeks later than i should be if i came on the right time from last month. I've only ever been 2weeks late once before.
I'm really worried that i could be pregnant.
I've had no signs of pregnancy, and i am under stress because my GCSE's are in 3weeks,
What do you think?
Please Help
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
| Since you have irregular periods theres no way to say really. The best thing you could do right now is to take a pregnancy test. Also- get on birth control. Even if it's only to help you regulate your periods, it will help put your mind at rest for next time you decide to have sex. Good luck and I hope things turn out alright for you. |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
April 21, 2008 |
| =] asks: |
| Well my bf was about to stick his hand down my pants today but I had my period so I pulled his hand back. I'm not worried about the fact that he'll do it again, but about what guys reckon about Pubic hair. And if i want to get rid of my pubic hair, what is the best thing to use and the best way to use that thing to get rid of it. |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
| Most guys these days expect SOME sort of grooming down there. Many expect it to be shaved, but what you do down there is completely up to you and what you feel comfortable with. At the very least it would be nice to trim so things are 'neat' down there so if he decides to go down on you there won't be hair in the way. If you decide to get rid of more, shaving is the easiest option. Trim it down very short and apply shaving cream. Very carefully (with a sharp, but not brand new razor) shave in the direction the hair grows (down) and then shave back up if you want to (against the growth of the hair) to get the rest. |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
April 20, 2008 |
| hopeless asks: |
| my gf doesnt get an orgasm while freaking up with me
but she does have while do it by herself alone
what could we do to get an orgasm with me |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
| The most common reason this happens is that when shes touching herself she probably touches her clit a lot. Most woman cannot cum without *lots* of clitoral stimulation. So get in positions that allow you to rub against her clit, or have either her or you touch it while you're inside her. Also- another reason masturbation is easier to 'cum' by, is she knows what she wants and when she wants it. When you're close to an orgasm, doing the slightest thing wrong (slowing down, going to soft, going too hard) can push the orgasm away. Have her communicate with you. Have her tell you what she wants when she wants it. Talking about what you like and what you want more of is a great way (probably the best way) to improve sex. Good luck. |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
April 19, 2008 |
| onemorething asks: |
| I wrote you about talking to my mom for the talk and I wanted to thank you. I was researching the issue and ended up going to the bathroom and when I came back, my mom was looking at the computer and saw your reply to me. I expected her to freak and I was wrong. She slightly confronted me on the issue and why I couldn't open up to her. She's happy I'm committed to 1 great guy and I'm being mature and responsible about it. I cried as she told me that I shouldn't be afraid to talk to her about anything.
She explained that her behavior came from the fact that she was being risky and used Christianity as a way to scare me from repeating her past and present behaviors. We spent a few hours looking at web sites and discussing my options and she wants me to look at getting on birth control. Thank you!
She thinks I should be on that ring thing or the pill. Which would you recommend? She's also suggests I rely on it and after 6 weeks quit using condoms and wants to know how effective it'd be without them. While, it's our hope I don't get pregnant for a few years, she'd support me as I long as I remain responsible and mature. She suggests that he and I discuss the rare chance I got pregnant. But how do I ask him? |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
| I'm glad you had a conversation! The decision to get the ring or the pill is up to you and your doctor. What would you feel more comfortable with, and what your body would react best to. Discuss it with him or her and see what you can figure out. Quitting condoms is up to you. It does bring added protection but if you feel comfortable enough trusting the hormonal birth control you WOULD be protected enough to stop. The pill/ring are both about 99.9% effective in preventing pregnancy (when taken correctly) whereas condoms are only about 86% when used correctly. It's a VERY good idea to discuss pregnancy in any sexual relationship (even if it's not sexual, sometimes)... Just tell him that even though it's unlikely that you'd get pregnant on birth control you'd want to know how he'd react if you did get pregnant and then maybe thing about how YOU would react as well. Feel free to ask if you have any more questions! |
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