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October 22, 2009 |
| msAbsolut asks: |
| So lastnight me and my boyfriend was having sex and he was sitting up and I was sitting up on top of him and we were doing it, while doing that I heard this water like sound in my stomach as if it was getting shaked up or something. Thats the first time I've ever heard that. Do you have a clue as to why that happened.
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
| It very possibly could've just been water in your stomach, lol. Your stomach is always make sounds anyway or you could've recently had a drink and were just hearing the sloshing from the movement of you having sex. |
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| Topic: |
General |
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October 03, 2009 |
| eggrolls asks: |
| Okay...where to start... lol. Well, basically I've never had sex before, and I've never gotten even NEAR to having sex. The closes thing I had ever gotten to it was a simple peck on the mouth. so, basically I haven't done anything with sex, but I keep thinking about it. It is against my religion...or kinda...I guess since adultery is and no sex before marriage. But I think about it maybe too much. Not me doing it or anything, just fake characters that I come up with...and it feels wrong but at the same time it feels okay? In a way though I feel like it's getting in the way of my closenss in my religion... I think I know the answer...to simply stop, but it's hard... Maybe I need specific steps on how to stop...? But then again it is just nice to spit it out on here. :) So...that's bascically it... |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
It's normal to have sexual thoughts. They are built into each and everyone one of us. I am not religious and I think that the way religion tries to put a damper on our natural sexuality is a crime. Because of that, my obvious answer is to say that you should do what feels right, within reason. Don't go out and have crazed wild unprotected sex, but if you want to go further with someone and it feels right to do so, then do it. Just make sure you are mentally, emotionally, and physically prepared. If you're not, stick to masturbation. Explore your own body. Explore your partners body. Make some limits and when you feel comfortable enough to move on, you can talk about doing more.
Good luck |
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| Topic: |
General |
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September 25, 2009 |
| msAbsolut asks: |
| So I've been on depo for about a year...I was suppose to go and get my next shot in the last week of august but I didnt. Me and my bf had unprotected sex thursday night. I know your not a doctor, but do you know anything about the birth control shot and how long does it last after you have stopped taking it? |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
That's almost a full month after you were supposed to get your last shot, so while it's unlikely you're pregnant, there's a larger chance that you could get pregnant. The shot is effective for 13 weeks at a time (usually scheduled every three months/12 weeks). For some women, it takes a few months for the full effect of Depo to wear off, but for others, fertility comes right back after the 13 weeks.
http://www.birth-control-comparison.info/bcdepo.htm |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
August 18, 2009 |
| carmel08 asks: |
| someone told me girls have 3 holes "down there". Personally i looked "down there" and only saw 2 holes i think.... they were close together so i am not to sure. can u help me? |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
| Yep, there are three. There's the small hole that urine comes out of (urethra), then the larger vaginal opening, and then the anus. |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
August 18, 2009 |
| cheesecake65 asks: |
| Well its like this by bf wants to have anal sex and its embrassing but i really don't kno wat anal sex is. I have heard a few different explainations.
Can u please help! |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
| Anal sex would involve him putting his penis in your anus, or the more commonly used word, butthole. :) |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
August 13, 2009 |
| A Bit Worried... asks: |
| Firstly, I'm a seventeen year old female. I just recently lost my virginity to my on and off boyfriend of eight months. Though I cant say that we are in love, and we are not together at the moment, we are still best friends. Okay, now to the point. On the eleventh, it's now the thirteenth, we ended up having unprotected sex for the first time. Though i'm aware that guys can pre-cum multiple times during sex, I'm not sure if he did inside me, because I know at one point I was going down on him and he did in my mouth. I know he didnt fully cum inside me though. My period is supposed to be due the twentieth, but this morning I started bleeding. It feels like the usual period, you know: lower back aches, cramps, tender breasts, etc. I'm also a bit nauseous, but sometimes that happens when my cramps are bad. The only thing is, the blood was darker brown in spots and lighter pink in others. I dont know how soon pregnancy symptoms are able to occur, but is it possible that i'm pregnant? How can I tell? Thanks for your time. |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
It's entirely possible that you are pregnant, especially considering the sex you had was unprotected. Even when you use protection (regardless of how much) you are still risking pregnancy. Using no protection at all just bumps those risks up more.
As for the pre-cum, it's likely that some got inside of you, and pre-cum can get you pregnant. Not trying to scare you, just being very honest. You wouldn't have been able to tell (unless he is a guy who has a LOT of precum) and he wouldn't have been able to tell or stop it from happening.
As far as your actual chances of being pregnant, it's hard to say. None of the symptoms you are saying could especially be pregnancy symptoms considering you are so close to getting your period. There isn't really any way for me to give you an exact percentage as to how likely it is that you're pregnant or not.
The only thing to do now is to take a pregnancy test. Hopefully (and most likely) you aren't pregnant and everything is okay. From now on, keep some condoms with you! |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
August 13, 2009 |
| kayco asks: |
| well me and this guy have been seeing eachuther for 11 mouts and we wont to have sex and we are wondering wil it be plesherable?and if it'll hurt or something cuz we both haven had sex befor? |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
| Typically sex only hurts for the female when having sex for the first time, and usually only if she still has her hymen (a piece of skin covering the entrance to the vagina). Just because you haven't had sex does not mean that you still have your hymen- it could have broken in other ways. Trust that the first time you have sex it will only last a matter of seconds, so don't be too worried about making it the most pleasurable sex ever. Work on making things fit (him penetrating you correctly) and figuring out the mechanics of sex itself. Then you can wait a bit and go again. Make sure to communicate with your partner- it takes time to really learn what gets you and your partner off. |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
August 11, 2009 |
| Solo557 asks: |
| im 15, shy, and never had a girlfriend b4 and i want to b in a reltionship but i can never talk to girls that im attracted to. how can i get over the shyness real fast |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
| Typically the easiest way to get over shyness with girls is to just force yourself to talk to them. Do a quick 1-2-3 countdown in your head and then make a move. Pretend you have confidence because thats what most people do. Pretending you have confidence isn't much different than real confidence. You're still making a move. If you want to find someone though, befriend people you like first. Then see if you can turn that friendship into something more. |
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| Topic: |
General |
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August 10, 2009 |
| chandler101 asks: |
| i masterbait alot but after i feel bad is it normally to masterbait and get orgasms |
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| hollistercutie4 says: |
| I'm not sure I understand the question. It's normal to feel a bit strange and uncomfortable after having an orgasm if you're not used to masturbating. But remember that there is nothing wrong with it and it is totally healthy. As far as orgasms, yes it is normal to masturbate until you orgasm. |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
August 10, 2009 |
| sammyswimmer07 asks: |
| I have a question can a General Practioner show me how to do a testicular self exam when I go in for my next physical? What all will happen? what will she have me do or what will she do? Can they also do rectal exams too? if need be? Can they also measure how big you are too? |
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| diamondkitten378 says: |
| A GP can give you instructions how to do a self-exam, but you can find that info online for yourself as well. They wouldn't do rectal exams usually, nor would they measure your size. |
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