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Teen Sexuality
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March 14, 2010 |
| Jenn asks: |
lol there is no good way to start this. I am a virgin and I am 18 years old...not a big deal right? Well it is to me because I am ready for sex; however, I am afraid of what guys will say of my large lips. I know that large labia are normal but they aren't really accepted in today's vain society. Porn doesn't exactly promote this appearance. I don't want to get intimate with a guy and have his reaction to my lips ruin my confidence and sexual appetite. I have looked into labiaplasty but I don't have $5000 to get this fixed. What would be your advice? |
| hollistercutie4 says: |
Advice? Don't stress about it! Every vagina is different, each and every one. And do you know how many look like the "perfect vagina"? Well- let's just say sex wouldn't be quite as common as it was if guys only wanted to screw blow up dolls. Don't let what you've seen or heard about your labia freak you out. Any guy worth sleeping with (and hopefully that's who you choose) will not care about nor even think about for a second the shape or style of your vagina. Not only that but many men prefer vaginas that aren't of that variety and probably seek out vaginas just like yours. Final line? Go into sex full of confidence for the hot body that is yours. Enjoy yourself and if your partner can't enjoy it too then ditch him and find someone who can. |
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March 04, 2010 |
| ashleyc123 asks: |
Okay,so this is a really really long story, but here it goes.. i have this friend that i've known since i was literally born, Nick. Our moms were best friends their whole life, so we became best friends too. Nick is a year older than me, and he was kinda a doofy looking kid haha, but his looks definitely improved over time. all my friends always are like 'OMG you're sooo lucky you hang out with him! Hes soo hot!' But i never really saw it, because i've known him for so long. He's so close with my whole family that my mom even lets him sleepover whenever he wants in my bed because she trusts us. and me and my mom are soo close that way too.
So a few nights ago i went to a party at my friends house, and got soooo drunk. About an hour or 2 into the party, i saw nick, and he came up to me and i thought he was gonna hug me or something, so i put my arms out, but instead, he took my arms, pushed me up against the wall behind me and pinned them to the wall, and started making out with me! it was MAGICAL. it was like my dream kiss, but i never pictured it being from HIM, but still, everything felt totally right.
Later that night, a friend dropped us off at my house and he slept over and we hooked up ALL night and things went a little farther than i planned...we ended up having sex twice! it wasn't the first time for either of us, so it wasn't TOO serious, but still...
and as if all that wasn't bad enough, the next morning, after we got dressed and stuff and nick was about to leave to go to work, we were in my room, and i was like 'soo...what exactly was that last night?' and he said 'well, it could be something and it could be nothing, i guess we'll just have to find out, but let me do one more thing first..' and he starts kissing me, but like playfully, and fell on me so we were making out, on my bed, with him on top of me. and then i heard a voice say 'so, when did this happen?' .and theres my dad standing at the door. nick immidiately got off of me, gave my dad an awkward look, said he was gonna be late for work, and then left. now things are not only really awkward with just him, it is in my whole house!
now my questions are: what do you think that was that whole night?
theres a possibility i like him now. pursue it or no?
what should i do about my parents? i feel llike i totally betrayed my moms trust!
and any other opinions would be much appreciatedd:) |
| diamondkitten378 says: |
As for Nick, I would suggest you talk with him. You were on the right track with "so...what exactly was last night?" He obviously isn't entirely opposed to there being more, but that doesn't mean he necessarily wants to pursue a relationship either. Maybe he just thinks he it'd be fun to fool around or maybe there's something more there....or hey, maybe he just wasn't sure what to say and wanted to make out again, buying himself some more time, lol. Just talk with him if you haven't already and see where that goes.
As for your parents, I hope you talked with them. Let them know it 'just' happened and you haven't been sneaking around their backs. It really was just the previous night and hopefully your mom knows you would've come to her with it soon (because you're 'that' close after all). You didn't even have the chance to yet and it was bad timing with your dad walking in.
Good luck! |
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March 03, 2010 |
| bad? asks: |
sex doesnt feel good to me is there something wrong with me? does it not last long enough? i have been sexually active for a year and every body says sex feels good but not for me so what is wrong? i make my boyfriend feel great but its just not there for me what am i doin wrong please help because it makes my boyfriend feel bad because im not being pleased. |
| hollistercutie4 says: |
It's pretty common for it to take more work for sex to feel good for a woman. Here are some things to keep in mind. 1) Sex takes practice. Enjoy the practice. Experiment and find something that feels good. 2) Not everything works for every body. Don't get discouraged. 3) Be mentally aroused. Are you into it? Wanna have sex? That is necessary. 4) Remember the clit. Most women can't orgasm without having their clitoris stimulated (touched, rubbed, licked, vibrated, etc) so don't leave that out! Do lots of clit work! It is where most of the nerve endings (where the feel good comes from) are. |
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